Love Relationship How to Understand and Manage it

Understanding the complexities of a Love Relationship can help us to manage it well.

Every relationship has two faces that a person has to understand and manage.

It is very simple if we reciprocate, love for love.

It can turn very complex also if we deviate from reciprocating love for love.

The best way to hold on to a relationship is by being trustworthy, loving, and caring in all your words and actions.

But if even with all this relationship is not working smoothly, then fearlessly accept the reality, handle it strongly, move on with determination, and come out with flying colors.

Here I am narrating, the life events of a girl I met during my college days.

An immensely talented, happy go, lucky girl.

She was everyone’s favorite and everyone’s friend.

She fell in love with a boy studying in a different college.

No matter how busy she used to be, but whenever that guy calls her up, she leaves all her work and readily pours in, her love in her talks.

One thing noteworthy was her complete dedication to the relationship.

All friends and family were aware of her relationship.

With utmost ease, she had disclosed her love life with her parents.

Indian parents who are generally the biggest threat to love birds were happy, with the fact that their 21-year-old daughter was dating someone.

Parents were aware that every Sunday, she will go out with her boyfriend.

They were happy together.

They had love, care, respect, fun, and everything nice which a person seeks in a relationship.

We as friends and as spectators were amazed to see such a flawless real love story.

For two years of our college term, nothing changed.

The things were going exemplary well, between them.

Luckily, the couple got a job in the same city.

To add the cherry on the cake, soon after college, they got married.

They were then leading a happy married life.

On social media, we could see romantic pics of the couple from several occasions, marriage, traveling, and partying.

The girl was active on the social platform, kept us updated on her perfect personal and comfortable work-life.

They were enjoying themselves with friends and family.

From their pictures that were floating on social media, one could perceive it as a paragon of a beautiful and happy relationship.

I saw, liked, and commented on her lovely posts and pictures for nine odd years.

I became accustomed to their ideal marriage and picture-perfect posts, portraying a happy life. They were surely understanding and managing their relationship well.

Just like fairy tale stories, this one also seemed too good to be true.

But, it was indeed true, then.

For a short while, the girl disappeared from the social platform.

I noticed this but didn’t find it weird.

One day, I was surprised to see her on my suggested friends’ list.

I added her again to my list.

To my astonishment, I found the girl started her life afresh with some other guy in a new city.

She is now the happily married, and a proud owner of a small handicraft business.

There are several reasons like infidelity, ceased love, loss of mutual respect, financial crises, harassment, and so on for ending a relationship.

Therefore, the reasons are not important.

So, the reason could be any, delivering the same outcome.

The vital thing is to realize, understand, and work on are the factors which make a relationship function steadily.

A relation works on persistent efforts from both the ends.

Love Relationship How to Understand and Manage it when your partner falls out love

What to do when despite your genuine efforts, your partner falls out love with you and moves on?

In such a situation let your partner go.

It is indeed tough for you.

That person certainly doesn’t deserve you.

Your partner may also regret later, but you should make the transition of splitting up the relationship smooth.

That’s all you can do in the first instance.

Love Relationship How to Understand and Manage it when you fall out love

The other situation is when regardless of your efforts, you eventually fall out of love. Then what to do?

In this situation analyze your feelings, try to figure out-

Why did it happen?

Why don’t you want to invest any more in that relationship?

So, can it be mended?

After deeply introspecting if you believe yes, you want to fix your relation from your end then, give it a good genuine try.

If after your analysis you still feel it can’t be fixed, then be honest towards your feelings.

No need to be in a relationship where there is no love.

It’s natural to feel guilty and sad initially.

A relationship without love cannot sustain for long.

With an unhappy love-life, one cannot have peace of mind.

Therefore, try to come out of the relationship as soon as possible.

A fabricated love-life will eventually meet its unfortunate fate and ultimate end.

So, no need to drag it.

When once it is over, recover from it fast.

Keep your mind free.

Be true to yourself.

Rediscover the new you, find your inner peace, explore your talents, and then someday, true love might seek you again.

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